Have you ever found yourself in a business networking environment or a social situation where you weren’t quite sure how to open a conversation with someone? If so, try using this technique to get the conversational ball rolling.
Make a statement
Offer personal disclosure
Extend a verbal invitation
Here are a few simplified examples. . .
Statement - The turnout for this event is great
Disclosure - I came here to gather information on Acme services
Invitation - What brings you here or have you been to this type of event before?
Statement - Sure is nice weather we’re having
Disclosure – It makes me wish I still owned my convertible
Invitation - How do you take advantage of weather like this?
Statement – There sure are a lot of Chamber members at this event
Disclosure – I joined the Chamber to meet other business professionals in the Dallas Area
Invitation – What prompted you to join the Chamber?
Great opening statements come from observing the other person or the environment that you are in. Great personal disclosures come from you and your personal experiences.
Great invitations come from genuine interest in the other person you are trying to strike up a conversation with.
While this is a fairly easy technique to master, make yourself more comfortable in its use by first trying it in normal everyday environments such as the grocery store or gas station. You will find it’s easy and very effective in breaking the proverbial ice.
-Jim
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